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A Broken Heart Still Beats: After Your Child Dies

A Broken Heart Still Beats: After Your Child Dies
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A Broken Heart Still Beats: After Your Child Dies

by Anne McCracken, Mary Semel
Product Group: Book
Publisher: Hazelden (2000-10-01)
ISBN: 1568385560
EAN: 9781568385563
Dewy Decimal #: 155
Paperback: 328 pages
Edition: 1
SKU: 29417
Condition: New
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Editorial Reviews


Product Description
How Two Grieving Mothers Found Inspiration and Comfort

There are few, if any, events in life as traumatic, heart-wrenching, and crushing as the death of a child. While nothing can mute the pain of such a life-shattering loss, others who know this experience can help those suffering articulate the chaos of their feelings and see that they can, eventually, feel whole again.

Organized by a journalist and a psychotherapist, each of whom has lost a child, A Broken Heart Still Beats is a remarkable compilation of poetry, fiction, and essays about the pain, stages of grief, and the coping and healing process that follows the death of one's child. The chapters are organized thematically and chronologically, from "Thunderstruck," the point at which parents first learn they have lost a child, to "The Legacy of Loss," wherein the authors and the anthology selections speak to the "steely hard and cold" life lessons this type of bereavement brings.

This compilation of poems and excerpts draws from short stories, novels, biographies, and autobiographies that focus on the death of a child as relayed through classic and contemporary world literature. It is made up of works by some of the best writers and thinkers present and past, many of them bereaved parents as well, ranging from Mark Twain, Isabel Allende, William Shakespeare, John Edgar Wideman, Fyodor Dostoevsky, Anne Morrow Lindbergh, Anne Tyler, and Sophocles to Eric Clapton and Winston Churchill. Biographical introductions personalize the excerpts, often offering new insights into well-known writers like William Faulkner and Rudyard Kipling. This book's anthologized selections make it truly exceptional.

This book expresses the universal themes of grief--and the common points of these experiences and feelings--in language and imagery that goes straight to the heart. The fact that each of the authors has lost a child brings a powerful authenticity to the book. Bereaved parents and family members as well as mental health professionals, bereavement counselors, and those interested in grief literature will all find this book extremely valuable.

"As one who has experienced the tragic, untimely death of a child, I have found this anthology of similar experiences an excellent source of comfort and healing."
--George McGovern, former U.S. Senator and Presidential candidate.

"By putting words to what is surely the most unspeakable of life's losses, this eloquent and painfully honest book may help make the darkness a little less dark, the loneliness a little less lonely."
--Judith Viorst, author of Necessary Losses

Born and raised in new York, Mary Semel graduated from Goucher College in Baltimore. She is a psychotherapist who, after working for many years at Sheppard Pratt Hospital, now has a private practice. Her sixteen-year-old son, Alexander, was killed in a car accident in 1991.

Anne McCracken is a former newspaper reporter and feature writer. She lives in Baltimore, Maryland, with her husband, Tom, and her daughter, Hollis. She lost her five-year-old son, Jake, in 1989.

The authors have appeared on "The Today Show" and National Public Radio's "Morning Edition."


Customer Reviews


At almost 2 years out, this is the most helpful book so far
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-07-24


My 9 year old daughter died suddenly at school almost 2 years ago. While I have continued to function and do the things that I must do, I know that I will be haunted forever by sadness and guilt (i.e. "the what-ifs") forever.

When my grief was new, "When Bad Things Happen To Good People" helped some. It gave me permission to see her death as random, horrifically bad luck. Not as a "lesson" that I needed to learn. Not as an "act of god." Not as something that I needed to accept and eventually see as part of a greater (good) plan.

I am religiously agnostic. Therefore, many of the books about grieving were meaningless to me. (Anyone who can believe in god after losing a child is beyond me....) This book allowed me to hear from other people who are pretty sure that they will not "see their child again." It talks about gut wrenching pain from many points of view - but always using the language of great writers to portray the many nuances of grieving for a son or daughter.

The unique aspects of this book have affirmed me and my process of facing an unbearable loss.


An excellent collection of parents feelings and memories...
Rating (5)
Date: 2008-04-29


I loved this book!
So many parents share their deepest feelings and memories about their children, their personal grief, and their healing.


Rich, moving anthology of fine literature on grief
Rating (5)
Date: 2007-12-31


This is not, it's refreshing to say, a self-help book. Neither is it exclusively for those who've lost a child. The authors have put together something much deeper and more complex. Drawing on literature throughout the ages and throughout the world--from Sophocles to Mark Twain to Rita Dove to Abraham Verghese--McCracken and Semel take the reader on a journey that is at once inspiring and heartbreaking. They, and the writers whose work they present, are unfailingly honest and vivid in their portrayal of grief.

They shun the simplistic "just follow these steps and everything will be okay in the end" approach-- nobody here will try to convince you that you have to "get over" it. Some things in life, these writers point out, you don't get over; you just learn to live with them. And it's no failure or weakness or unwillingness to "do the steps."

Read this book--whether you've suffered the catastrophic loss of a child or another kind of loss--to see what great writers have to say about learning to live again. And the next time you pick up a poem by Robert Frost, remember that he lost not one, but four, of his children.


Hard to read but well worth it!
Rating (4)
Date: 2007-11-15


It's hard to read about going on after your child dies. But if you can push thru and read this there are a few good seeds that get planted to help you cope. Not a favorite, anyone trying to tell me its ok to go on after my child has died is full of it- this doesn't push that down your throat. When the time is ready for you- buy this one- you'll know when that is!


An excellent grief resource for grieving parents
Rating (5)
Date: 2007-09-18


My daughter questioned why I was reading this book, and until she said it I would have not really thought about or understood why I WAS reading it. However, when forced to think about it, I realized that I was probably wondering how other parents were able to survive this crushing loss and by what means they did so. This book provided that window into another's grief and gave me the sense that I was not alone, and that while it was normal to feel the things I was experiencing, others were finding out and giving voice to their own grief. It was this shared experience of understanding another's pain that gave me some relief - to know that I wasn't going crazy!

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